While how a person looks is important to some, it is not the most important characteristics for many others.
Having counseled countless couples and single men and women over the years, I have created a list of characteristics […] Read more If you’re not thrilled about your dating prospects lately, it’s easy to blame everyone and everything else: You’re not meeting enough people.
Although I appreciate them thinking about me in the middle of the day, if we have gone out on several dates, at what point is it appropriate to expect a 5 minute phone call a few times a week?
Is it too early in the dating process for phone contact? I think it should be used exclusively for only a handful of things: Letting someone know that you’re lost or running late. But anyone who’s ever used it knows how conversations can easily take a wrong turn.
How are you supposed to progress the relationship if you never “touch-base” by actually speaking to one another? Or, am I just old fashioned (39) and not used to this new aspect of dating? Telling someone where you’re located in a crowded theater or bar. There’s no context, tone, voice, or facial expressions to modify your message. You’re encouraged to misspell, you’re discouraged from saying anything deep or meaningful.
Writing flirty or dirty notes to be provocative and naughty. The next thing you know, you’re having a vicious argument that could have been easily avoided in person. Essentially, texting is emailing for the lazy, illiterate and mobile.
The truth is, most of the anxieties and pitfalls of dating are the same on and offline.
Can movies be a subtle turn-on, or a total turn-off? I had e Harmony Research Scientist Jonathan Beber take a look over the last year at the most popular movies mentioned in e Harmony subscriber profiles, and the impact mentioning a particular film could have on communication and interest.
I am happy to […] Read more Does e Harmony really use science to match people, or is that just marketing speak?
Over the last several months, I have dated 3 men (not simultaneously) that I met on
They all seem to have one thing in common: after 2-4 dates, they like to touch base with me during the week by sending me text messages to my cell phone!